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I think doing someone else's hair requires a certain level of trust and intimacy
And especially braiding someone's hair
because it really is a lovely feeling to have someone's fingers gently tugging at your hair, laying locks of hair over others, pulling locks under others
But at the same time, unless you trust them a certain extent, you won't feel confident that whatever they've done to your hair looks good and you'll probably run your fingers through your hair and shake out the entire thing